Written by Alex Kay on Jin Ex Girlfriend, Insecurity. Images by Eric Nelsøn, Onkel Wart and Vigil Photography. It doesn’t mean that you made the wrong decision. It doesn’t mean that you should hook up with her again.
If you dream about something that might trouble you a bit – like an ex lover, it probably just means that you are closer to letting go of her for good. They are basically your unconscious mind showing its face at the surface of your conscious mind. My conclusion is pretty simple: dreams in their own form mean nothing more than what you want them to mean. If you ask me, this is very exciting stuff. Your dream world is a deep dive into the unconscious. It’s the same thing if you are dreaming about your granny who passed away a few years ago.Įven though the conscious you may have gotten over things, the unconscious you may not. I think it’s a pleasant thought that dreams are a way for us to let go of things. Therefore, dreaming a dream like the one I dreamt tonight probably just means that I am letting some thoughts about this girl fly away into the universe. They help us sort out the confusion our minds go through on a day to day basis. In short, dreams are a way for us to categorize experiences, and letting go of things that are, or are not, useful to us anymore. There is not a single answer, but a lot of theories point to dreams being a way for us humans to cope with all the thoughts we are having every single day. I have been reading a lot about dreams and what they really mean. I cherish the time that we were happy, but I have moved on. We are history that I am proud of – because I know that at the time, I made nothing but right decisions. But after daydreaming for a few minutes, I catched myself doing this, and with a few good inhalations of nice, cool air, it was gone. I thought about some more good memories from when we were together. I must admit that when I first woke up, I did imagine being with this girl again. If you’re like I was about four years ago – having insecure thoughts about stuff like dreaming about an ex-girlfriend, read on. I would probably wander around all day pondering them from time to time, stressing me out unconsciously. I guess we all do, but I think it’s amazing when I can actually remember parts of my dream(s).įour years ago, when my knowledge was not the same as it is now, I would probably have woken up a little nervous with a lot of questions on my mind. Re-living beautiful memories is one of life’s greatest joys, and I appreciate the mere fact that I even dream. Most of all, it can lead to a lot of insecurity – which is something we don’t want too much of!īut a lot have changed in the last four years, and today, my thoughts about the dream have been radically different than what I might have thought back then.įirst of all, I woke up smiling.
A lot of crazy thoughts would start showing up – thoughts about the break-up, if it was the right thing to do, if I were as good a man with her as I could have been, if we really were meant to be together, etc.Ī single dream can spur a lot of thoughts, and one thing leads to another.
If you had asked me four years ago, I would probably have answered that I might still like this girl.
I have been over this girl for months, but when a dream like that pops up, you have to ask yourself: what does it mean? This carries striking resemblance with an experience I had with just this girl once – only it was on the beach and not the park, that’s the only difference. We were smiling and laughing, and we ended up kissing in the grass. It was a summer day, and we were enjoying an ice cream in the park. I just dreamt about one of mine this night. I guess that most of us have tried to dream about an ex-girlfriend once, twice or even several times in our lives.
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